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I want to talk to you about Safety. There are a lot of misconceptions out there regarding herbal healing and other uses of herbs (such as for feminization), and I hope with this to be able to clear some of those up. Safety with any treatment is essential for overall health and well-being, whether it be allopathic or alternative in nature.

Herbs Are Medicine!!

Herbs should be treated with the very same respect that most of us give to prescription drugs. Many herbs can be harmful in large or prolonged dosages, as can most anything in this life, I might add. Some herbs can be addictive after long-term improper use. Some are poisonous. Some can have toxic side effects if not properly balanced with herbs that counteract those effects. They should not ever be used on a daily basis without the proper guidance of a health care professional. Many people feel that just because herbs are natural, they can’t be hurt by them. Nothing can be further from the truth. Uranium is natural, too, that doesn’t mean we are all lined up clamoring to live right next to a uranium mine!

You must know something about herbs before attempting to use them in any therapy. You must know the herbs that interfere with the body’s natural functions. You must know the herbs that work together properly. You must know the herbs that balance each other. You must know what you are treating. You must know which herbs should not be used for prolonged periods of time. And if you don’t know any of these items, you should not go against the advice of those trained extensively in the use of herbs! The incorrect use of herbs is what gives natural remedies a bad name, such as the repeated use of Ephedra (Ma Huang) in diet pills. That is a gross and criminal misuse of a valuable herb, and now the FDA is considering banning this herb simply because commercial companies refuse to use herbs responsibly, focusing instead on the Almighty Dollar. Don’t perpetuate this sort of misuse!

More Is Not Better!!

Many people feel that if a little makes me feel better, a lot will make me feel fantastic. Or in the case of feminization – if this much will give me this result in three months, then doubling it will give me those results faster. This is not the case with herbs (nor with synthetics!!!). Dosages need to be carefully controlled, as with any medicine. You wouldn’t swallow a whole bottle of antibiotics at one time to kill a bacterial infection. Apply the same caution to herbal medicines. It is possible to overdose!

Herbs usually work slowly, with the body and its own natural defenses and functions. You must give herbs time to work before changing your dosages. In this modern world of a “pill for everything”, folks have come to expect instant cures, instant relief. You should note that with chronic illness, even prescription drugs take time to work. The same applies with herbal medicines. Give them time to work. Support them with a proper diet, with exercise, and with proper attention to yourself. If the herbs aren’t working for you, then you either have the wrong combinations, the wrong dosages, or you aren’t adhering to a proper healing regimen. Contact a trained health care professional for guidance as to what works for you and your specific body.

One Dose Does Not Fit All!!

You wouldn’t give a small child the same amount of cough syrup or pain reliever or antibiotics you give an adult. The same applies with herbal medicines. The dose must fit the individual. The dosages and combinations need to be based on the illness treated, your past and present medical history, your age, your weight, and several other factors. Combinations must be chosen so as not to interfere with any specifics with your particular body, and so as not to further aggravate that which is being treated. A trained health care professional can help you choose the proper combinations and dosages for your unique body and health concerns.

Tell Your Doctor What You Are Taking!!

You wouldn’t hide the fact that you are a smoker or a drinker or have a heart condition from your physician. You shouldn’t hide the fact that you are using herbal medicines, either. Some herbs can have serious adverse reactions when improperly mixed with prescription drugs. Just because they are natural doesn’t mean there can’t be reactions! Many chemical drugs are derived from healing plant constituents. So you could be causing a serious problem for yourself if you are getting far too much of something that is supposed to be helping you. There is no reason to hide. Herbal healing is becoming much more mainstream today, and many physicians are learning about herbs as medicine. If yours isn’t, then help educate him or her. Or find a doctor that can help you work with your herbs. Most communities have herbal professionals, naturopathic doctors, Chinese Medicine practitioners, and other professionals that are trained in the proper uses of the healing herbs. Seek one out before you make some major mistakes with your precious body.

I would like to add here that you should also be completely honest with your naturopathic doctor or herbal professional as well! Little tidbits of information such as you drink a six-pack a night may not be information your physician gives a damn about unless he is dealing with liver failure, but it is vital information to us natural health practitioners. And if you are taking prescription drugs, legally or illegally, we need to know about it!

Certain herbs should never be combined with certain prescriptions, and if we don’t know about it before we suggest a proper herbal regimen, we can’t be sure that we are giving you proper and safe information. Don’t be shy! We can’t ethically turn you in for pot smoking – we are bound by the oath of our professions, and the client-doctor confidentiality is held as sacred by us as it is with any other health care professional. But we do need to know this information so we can properly care for you! Certain things, such as alcohol, prescription drugs, etc. react very differently when confronted with herbs. So if we do not know what all is in your body, we do not know what to and what not to prescribe for effective safe treatment.

But The Drug Companies Are Recommending Herbs!!

Indeed, there are growing numbers of drug companies that are jumping on the natural health bandwagon. However, this does not give you license to just use whatever you see in a commercial or magazine ad in hopes that it will improve your condition (or hasten your feminization). Again, most herbs should not be used on a daily basis over the long term, without the proper care and guidance. That can actually do more harm than not using an herb at all. Educate yourself before reaching for that one-a-day herb. You may not need it for what you think you do. Just because it has a “name” behind it does not make it safe for continued daily use. Seek guidance from a trained health care professional if you are confused or unsure of what to do with these new products.

Following these guidelines will help you to get the most from your herbal treatments. You will be healthier and happier if you don’t fall for media hype that is out there just to sell a product. Stick to what is known, and preferably from someone who is properly trained in the uses of medicinal herbs. Don’t indiscriminately choose an herb without knowing exactly what to expect from it, good and bad. Always treat your herbal medicines with respect, and they will do the same for you.

Rev. Dr. EarthAngel

The Herbal Encyclopedia
Benevolent Member of The Sissify Staff

Time for your shot?So you’ve been surfing the net and haunting the library and hanging out in book stores looking for every tidbit of information you can find on feminization. You think you know enough to make an informed decision. But do you really?

I’ve been in the Internet chat rooms, I’ve sat in offices with patients, I’ve listened to people on the phone and in person. I know how much misinformation there is out there, and how many of you take that as Gospel. I’m here to tell you, if you believe all of it, you are doing yourself a grave injustice.

I spend half my days correcting false information, so I know there is a lot of it out there. There are even those who like to take my own words and twist them around to suit their personal needs when chatting with others (I know who you are!). I see so much nonsense that my own mind gets boggled and confused, and I’m supposed to be the professional! No wonder so many of you are so very rattled and shaken. So let’s correct a few major falsehoods right here.

The first one I want to address is the statement “you aren’t a real transgender unless you go all the way”. Such prejudicial bias in that sentence, isn’t there?! Basically, you are who you are. No one particular action, decision, or comment is going to change that. Transgenders come in as many forms and styles as there are people wearing the label. It is not appropriate for every person to undergo SRS. It is not appropriate for every TG to be taking hormones. It is not appropriate for every TG to be taking the same hormones in the same dosages. It is not appropriate for every TG to live life the same way as the next. What is appropriate is what works for YOU and your life. You are a real transgender, regardless of whether or not you take hormones, regardless of whether or not you opt for surgery. Never forget that. You ARE real!

The second one is “if you are really serious you would take prescription drugs, herbs don’t work”. More prejudicial bias at work here. If you are serious, then you should be addressing your personal needs, your personal health, your personal goals. You are serious when you embark on a path and stick with it to its logical conclusion. You are serious when you ingest anything that is designed to alter your current body chemistry. Period. Where do you naysayers think drugs come from? They come directly from herbs originally, but because the big companies can’t patent a plant, they work to make a chemical copy of what they think a plant has in it that makes it work the way it does. Sometimes they come close, sometimes they are very far off. That doesn’t matter to them, what matters is that they have a patented product to sell and make more money off of. Nobody gets rich growing, harvesting, and marketing herbs. Comfortable, sometimes maybe; rich, no way. And if herbs didn’t work in some degree, then why and how did the idea come about in the first place? Of course, there can be some truth to that original statement – herbs don’t work, if you are looking for the same speed, the same effects, the same negatives, the same positives. We can’t compare apples and oranges and come out with papayas. That aside, if you take the correct herbs matched to your body and your medical history, then you are just as serious as the self-prescribing tranny next door or in that favorite chat room.

Since I am now accepted and qualified as both counselor and primary doctor for SRS patients heading to Thailand, as well as natural SRS patients I have in other countries, I think I would be the first to know if a natural regimen wasn’t “appropriate”. Thanks to open minds that exist, it is not only appropriate, it’s happening. Natural is not inferior. Synthetics are not superior. It’s a personal choice based on your personal needs.

You are not incorrect if you choose one way over another. You are only incorrect if you throw away your health pursuing nonsense or listening to nonsense or BELIEVING nonsense. You should be committed to the process, you should be committed to protecting your long-term health, and you should be committed to being yourself. That’s all the pre-requisites there should be on any path. The rest is up to you. You are an individual, what you do needs to be right for you, not decided by people who have never met you and could never know how your health and safety could be compromised by your following their “expert advice”. Being transgendered does not make one an instant expert on the subject, it only makes one an expert on their own personal situation and transition. Bear that in mind, and keep plugging forward on your chosen personal path. Listen to advice, check out resources, consult with REAL certified professionals, but ultimately, all the decisions about your body should be yours and yours alone.

Rev. Dr. EarthAngel
The Herbal Encyclopedia 
Benevolent Member of The Sissify Staff

Copyright 1998-2006 by Rev. Dr. EarthAngel, ND, DD · All rights reserved


Haven’t we all become rather tired of the same old ads that portray supposedly manly men in that stereotypical way. Let’s not talk about Tiger Woods and how it can back fire for leading brands but here at Sissify we’ve tired of mens ads that do manly in a very specific way.

Have you noticed how they show clean jaws, six-packs, brooding expressions, smooth chest and stubble. And while many women don’t have a problem with any of the above, there are so many other, more effective ways to get a real Mistresses attention.

Because you’re worth it!

If it were up to us, instead of meat hunks, looking mean and moody, in exotic locations we’d have a demure sissy in skimpy lingerie worshipping a Superior with her pink lipstick coated mouth. Or being plundered over a table by a powerful Mistress and her strap-on. Because in our opinion that’s really sexy.

So all you advertising executives in media land for future reference, forget Tiger (he may be an excellent golfer, but, to us, he’s about as hot as Alaska). And scour the over-flowing House gallery for beautiful feminine sissies that would love to be on the centre spread of a national magazine in panties and a bra.

Aren’t I right girls? How many times do you read those womens magazine and stare forlornly at the pretty models and just wish you could swap places?

Send philippa a feMail!Our Valentine Princess!

Princess philippa has become a gorgeous & radiant collared sissy, and recently swore her devotion to her dominant Mistress. Doesn’t she look divine in red and pink for Valentines? So much so you would never know her road to femininity was a little bumpy. Her poor Mistress initially struggled to get our Princess to discard her ugly male urges and devote herself full-time to becoming a sissy. Now she is broken in and accepts her sissy role with the pleasure it deserves; but why am I telling you this? When you can see all this from the glint of satisfaction in her eye. Well done Princess philippa – You rightly deserve the crown and are a fitting example to our other girls in the House.

Will you be the next House Valentine?

iphone-picYou’re a pathetic sissy and like all pretty sissies you adore all things beautiful and feminine. But you also like gadgets (see our Behaviour Modification Assignment – Anal Submission) so when it comes to choosing the colour of your new Apple iPhone the choice is obvious. Girlie gloss white, not dull butch black. Quite frankly We’re tired of everyone kicking this gorgeous white phone. The moment it was released the ‘it’s a sissies phone’ comments began in earnest.

At the House we have two ways of looking at this. Either grow up and don’t be so old fashioned… or embrace it. Celebrate your good fortune, slip on your best panties and rush out and buy a white iPhone 3gs and show the world that deep down you are that sissy panty wimp you know you truly are.
Not only can you share your girlishness as a Secret Sissy, but you also are given the ability to surf the House wherever you are, as well as take photos for submission to the House.
Girls, If you can’t normally exercise your femininity in public this gem is your perfect excuse to show your true sissy self. It will fit inside your dainty handbag, look lovely in your beautifully manicured hand, compliment your jewellery and simply glisten against your summer dresses. Of course you can always cover it in a horrid black leather case if your friends mock you mercilessly but then again you could always find some more friends who appreciate your wimpish ways. Start here in the House and send in your application to begin your journey.
Of course there is more inside that we dont dare show out here!
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