i want to tell her, but i don’t think she would react very well. i love her too much to cheat on her and she has been good to me. i have tried to to give her hints. once i asked her to put make up and nail polish on me and she did. i have tried bondage with her and she doesn’t seem very interested. i tried to get her to live out her fantasies, but she really doesn’t seem to come up with anything. we rarely have sex unless i initiate it. i guess i will try the slow approach. i already do most of the cooking. i know she hates to do dishes so i doing that for a start.