Good sissy Guide

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for your Superiors return. This is a way of letting Her know that you have been thinking about Her and are concerned only about Her needs. The prospect of a good meal (especially Her favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself with the care a Goddess is due. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed and ready to serve when She arrives. Touch up your make-up, cinch your corset, tuck well, check your hose seams, step into those five inch heels, don your prettiest frock or uniform, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking and eager to worship and serve. She has just been with lots of work-weary people and will require nothing less than a perfectly presented sissy-wife servant.

Be gay and a little more interesting to Her. Her boring day, especially if it involved caddish untrained males, may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your Wife-Mistress arrives.

  • Gather up clutter, paper etc. and then run a dust cloth over the tables.
  • Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for Her to unwind by. Your Wife-Mistress will feel that She has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for Her comfort will provide you will immense personal satisfaction, as you sole purpose in life is to serve and please Her.
  • Minimize all noise. At the time of Her arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum.
  • Be happy to see Her.
  • Curtsey and show respect for your Goddess and Mistress. Practice good sissy posture deportment with shoulders back, legs together and eyes lowered.
  • Greet Her with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please Her.
  • Listen to Her. You may have a dozen things to tell Her, but the moment of Her arrival is not sissy time. Let Her talk first – remember, Her topics of conversation are more important than yours.
  • Make your evening Hers. Never complain if She comes home late or goes out for dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand Her world of strain and pressure and very real need to be at home and relax.
  • Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your Mistress-Wife can renew Herself in body and spirit.
  • Don’t greet Her with complains and problems. A good sissy does not bother he.r Superior with silly self-centered prattle.
  • Don’t complain if She’s late home for dinner or even if She stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what She might have gone through that day.
  • If She entertains others, provide thorough, discreet service to Her friends, or even lovers. Her needs come first and your duty is to serve those needs.
  • Make Her comfortable. Have Her lean back in a comfortable chair or have Her lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for Her. Draw a bath, with scents and oils, if She so desires.
  • Arrange Her pillow and offer to take off Her shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. Offer to massage Her feet.
  • Don’t ask Her questions about actions or question Her judgments or integrity. She is the Mistress of Her house and as such will always exercise Her will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question Her. Gratefully accept Her discipline, weather merited or not, as it will make you a better sissy-wife.
  • A good sissy-wife always knows he.r place

(A special thanks to Mistress Mary Anne and her sissy stevie for submission of this guide. If you can imagine girls, this was based on an actual article in Housekeeping Monthly 13 May 1955 called “The good wife’s guide”.)


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15 days ago


Thanks so much for posting this. After reading, this sissy has realized she may have been thinking sissy thoughts before what she had previously thought. Your sissy has always loved chores, cooking and cleaning.


Sissy Lefti

28 days ago

This sissy never realized chores could serve such a greater purpose. Having a clean an orderly house certainly did not go unnoticed. Thanks so much for the guide its an inspiration to live by.

1 month ago

Thank you so much Mistresses for letting sissy johanna read these wonderfully clear and exciting notes on how s.he should subjugate he.rself so beautifully and completely to a Mistress. This is so thrilling for sissy to learn and try. Thank you so much Mistresses

3 months ago

memorised all the rules, first steps made off the course… so thankfull…

4 months ago

This sissy loved the list unfortunately some topic need be improved and some is hard to say but this sissy just don’t do, many times complain about her Miss arrives late for dinner or lunch, this sissy is felling very ashamed right now and will stop this ridiculous attitude definitely. Many thanks for read this.

1 year ago

sissy learn long ago s. he was different. s. he had an older sister and sissy just hung by her. Well one night big Vicki decided to have a party. sissy was 10 years old. My sister and a couple of her girlfriend dressed me up and made me up to look like a whore. Well I 10 years old I didn’t even know better. Well I was sucking the starting linebacker huge cock. It was enormous. Well after that I knew what I am. Thank you to the Staff and especially for the Supreiors
sissy sandi

sissy misti
1 year ago

Amazing list, sissy misti will be sure to be the best sissy-wife s.he can be.

2 years ago

Dear Mistress,

This sissy took a pair of her pink satan panties and removed the lace from a pair of baby pink rhumba rubber panties and sewed the lace onto my pink satan panties. This is one of my favorite pink satan panties so I love wearing them. Oh Mistress teach me more about being a good sissy and show me how to be a sissy-slut.

2 years ago

the good sissy guide is a blueprint for All Dommes and all us sissys,
Her comforts . . . make the evening Hers.

anna dove
2 years ago

Wonderful sweet topic) Thank you so much) Sissy Anna try to do exactly so) Kisses and Hugs)